sometimes I wonder if people get angry when you do something nice for someone.. they get jealous because they where in the same situation at some point and no one did anything like that for them? so they feel if they didn't get that then no one else should. I would be angry too Kathy.. when someone you "think" understands then they say or do something that shocks you it makes you wonder. I hope Evie gets well soon and gets back to her drawing!