Holly, please give people time to respond and do not take it personally. Two days is not a long time for this community. Not all members are online everyday, members come here when they are able, and will only respond if they feel they have something to valid to contribute. Please remember everyone here is a sufferer of PTSD or the carer of a sufferer. Many are in the same condition as you are at the moment. Perhaps you need to re-read this article:

http://www.ptsdforum.org/thread5113.html