Nyc, I agree with the responses you have already received. There is really not much to do except be available if he wishes to talk, listen, and be highly supportive in attitude and demeanor. As Veiled mentions, you cannot relate, I have learned that one the hard way. If you notice that saying "I love you" or any other phrases bother him, I would avoid them. I have found that much of communicating with a sufferer effectively is a matter of trial and error. You will learn over time what works best for you in your particular situation. It is most important to maintain an attitude of non-judgment, not take things personally, and be open to changes as he heals. Good luck to you.