Thanks everyone for responding... I keep telling him that they will pay us eventually and it's not like we are completely broke or anything- we have more than enough money to survive. He was so looking forward to paying off all of our debts and things that this set back has gotten to him. He is coming around though. I tell him that the boys and I still love him so everything will be fine. He has another psyche appt (with his usual psyche) on Thursday and apparently they will actually start the EMDR thing. THey didn't start it last fortnight as Alex had his other appt that morning and the psyche didn't want to push him. I think he is actually looking forward to seeing his psyche this week as he has a fair bit to discuss with him. Now that our computer is fixed, he is spending a lot of time playing games and so forth which is a blessing because otherwise he is in my hair all the time, and it has stopped him thinking about the pay out as often. He has met up with a few of his old school friends recently so he is spending time going fishing with the boys and so on, and even though he never catches anything, he finds it relaxing- so now he has some one to go with, he is a lot better emotionally. Alll in all though we are going very well. Tahnks again for all of your support...
Tammy