Yes, asking is a very good idea, thank you Claire. We are not mind readers! I do want to caution however; too many questions can become overwhelming as well, at least in Evie's case I have found this to be so. Once again it boils down to judging their mood at the time, and not bombarding them with too much of anything - talking, questions, love, etc - they are easily overwhelmed especially when ill, so moderation in all things is important.