True my dear, very true. It does impact you and I do already recognise that though and understand it. Kerrie is a manipulative nasty person, and things have only gotten worse since separation then meeting you, in her eyes that is. I want to see my children, yet she will not allow me too unless supervised by her. Not exactly feasible for us to move forward as my kids are part of my life as are you part of my life. What did my brother say.... emotional pain is a tough one, or something like that.