Thanks Jim.
I do understand the attachment, and do accept it, too. However I think everything should be balanced. It is simply unhealthy to be attached so much... Being needed is great, but being needed always is not, at least for me. It just puts too much responsibilities, and it is disturbing. See, I love personal freedom even in the best relationship.
Well, I do see something similar, however. Jose also holds my hand until he falls asleep, and even when he sleeps.
Does Evie gets angry when somethting happens to you, or you are simply unconfortable or something like that? Jose does a great deal, and although I see a root of this anger, it is annoying.
Yes, I know men are normal human beings, just like us the women , but there are certain gender stereotypes I had absorbed from my culture. See, It is hard, IMHO, to be attracted to and to feel sorry of the very same man...