We're on a time out...again. It's a little frustrating right now. Considering the timing. We're going through something personal and I know that this is very hard for him. I'm really proud on how he's handled things so far. It's a positive step for him, you know? So, here I am updating myself on any other information I can get.

I do have a rather personal question. I've read many experiences here and elsewhere about infidelity. I'd like to know from both the sufferers & carers point of view why this seems to be a common issue. I know this will probably sound dumb, but is it preventable? Is there something from a carers side that can be done to prevent this from happening? To be completely honest, this thought crosses my mind (not always, but it's there), whenever he asks for his space. It's really one of my biggest fears, because I honestly don't know how I would handle that particular situation. Anyway, any insight would be useful.

Neela