Anthony MY BF is overseas for his 2nd time in iraq. He and I were doing so well, having been gone for 6 months when suddenly out of nowhere he said we need a break and I havent spoken in 6 wks. I believe he has PTSD or is getting it as before he left he broke down with me about going back and he has big anxieties. Then for him one day while over there to be like I am so in love with you and I finally found everything I ever wanted in someone to I need a break just made no sense to me. We talked all the time and I noticed he stopped being online as much and started sayign he was tired which when he breaks down he always wanted to sleep. Well he wrote me on day and says he is having trouble with his anxieties but everything will be ok and then 5 days later he needs a break and cuts me off. He took my pics down from his mysapce page can moved me off his front page. At home he would never do something like that. He is so loyal and loving so I am not sure how to get him to come back around to himself or to open up....I write him all the time and say I am here for you. I love and miss you. He reads them and doesnt reply but when I leave him love comments he leaves them up and doesnt delete them. It all is confusing for me. Do you have any insight on what may have happened and why he would so suddenly need to cut me off and all he could say is he needs to think about what he wants to do with the rest of his life when a few weeks before we were on the same exact page. Please help if you can. I have done so much to stand by him and so I have been sick for 6 wks now not knowing what to do. We were so in love and have known each other since we were teenagers in school. |