Hi Vera,
I feel that I have a moral obligation to these wives and children. If I don't know the circumstances of the person giving the money, I'm blindly turning my head and pretending it's OK. I certainly wouldn't like it if I was flat broke and my daughter and I were starving while my husband was spending his paycheck to get his jollies by watching a girl get naked.

I would have to think he needs to get his priorities straight. Now, I understand that everyone deserves a break, and moderation is the key, but to do this on a regular basis (which I've seen a lot of) I can't agree to it.

I think taking money from some one who should be using their money for their children is wrong (for me). I don't judge anyone who chooses to do this though. It's just a matter of personal opinion. I don't hold this against myself from my past. I just wouldn't do it in the future, unless my daughter or I were literally starving and on the verge of death.

Peace
Tammy