What great insight you have...I can't begin to tell you how great it is to talk to someone who has been there and done that...my problem is that I don't have great patience and tend to be rather selfish sometimes, I need alot of attention and support as well from the type of work I do, so it is hard for us sometimes in that sense.

Ah well. I wish I could say that this is the begining for us, but my wife had to go to treatment several years ago for anorexia nervosa, and that was a monumental strain on our relationship. We thought that was the major issue in her life for years...not so, apparently. I'm just having a hard time remaining patient, even though I love my wife very much.

Oh...my wife and I are both from Louisiana, but she moved to somewhere north of Sidney during grade school (if you said it I would know it) and lived there for several years until her father was transferred back to the states...she still keeps in touch with friends form there and really loved it...she wants us to go there so that she can show it to me one day. I sincerely hope we can do that!