I appreciate your opinions and all the advice. As I said, I have followed the advice to give him space. I haven't written him in a few days since reading these different views. I am going to try what you all say but its going to be really hard for me. I am not defending myself, as I havent done anything to defend but try to love my BF and my best friend as best I can and try to do what he asked. I won't cut ties as I promised him, I am sticking by him but I am giving the space and seeing what happens. Yes he told me if he changes like he did last time, withdrawls or becomes distant for me to stick by him, but as I begin to not contact him and see what happens, I feel confident in alot of ways, as I have made sure he knows many times since all this happened that I love him, that I always will, that I am not going anywhere and that I was writing him to keep the committment of what I had promised him. We will see what happens and I will update you. Thanks again :)