Ok. Well thank you for the warning. Last time he got back he had begun smoking but he had never gotten into drinking or drugs. I am going to look for these things and pray he pulls through without these things. He told me he changed in his attitude last time but eventually came back to himself. I would never think he would do those things, knowing the kind of man he is and how ethical and serious about his job he is but I hear you and will def be looking out. Is there anything that i can say to help him from turning those ways besides showing love as I have been?