Yah I noticed that sometimes he would be like I need to sleep and wnated to get off quick and other times he was in better moods and wanted to chat and use the webcams. What I wonder is why is he talking to everyone, as minimal as he is and even though its short but not writing me a word. He reads them and leaves my comments but is almost trying to erase me from his mind, like when he moced my pics off his page and moved me off his top friends. I want to understand but it was not like him and so hurtful I just can't believe he hasnt said a word to me in almost 8 weeks. Did you pic one person to push completely away? The weird thing is that when I said, you are coming home for 18 days in Jan, we were supposed to be together...he was like"Oh well we can still spend time together" and he said he loved me too so to me, normally actions speak louder than words and he isnt acting like he loves me. He wrote our mutual friend back when she asked about his work but it was quick and then when she wrote him back and made comments about how great it was he and I found each other and how she can't wait to see us at our reunion he didnt write back again. It is like anything emotional or relationship wise he shuts off....