Linda, it is definitely a good idea to not have children if you feel you may abuse them! Unfortunately many people do not even consider that, they have children regardless of their own personal circumstances, financial, emotional or otherwise. It seems many consider having children a right when it is actually a privilege!

2quilt, I do understand your reasoning for not having children, and more power to you. Society places too much emphasis upon having children. Not everyone is equipped to do so nor has the interest! That being said however, in spite of our difficulties, Jim and I cannot imagine our lives without our children. As little ones they were all a joy. And in our experience, once they are past adolescence, and if you are fortunate to have a good relationship with them as we do, it is wonderful! Financially speaking, we have had to make some sacrifices over the years however we are still able to go on many of those trips you speak of. ;) We are going to Curacao and Venezuala for Christmas.