Thanks Veiled. I am happy to get responses from everyone, just addresses Anthony as he was m,aking the comments.

I can see where you are coming from in terms of general PTSDer behaviour there. Although, I don't think that my husband would go down that path. I have had my own issues with insecurities and suspected him of cheating and he resisted fiercly. I do believe him. I am starting to work our some of my own problems and one of my biggest motivations is so that I can be a more suitable carer that he feels he can come home to.

It is not just an emotional cut-off for us at the moment, he has moved out. It has been almost 3 weeks.

But I have faith. This forum is giving me even more. Hugs to you all.