Okay I just asked my son. So this is his answer.

Sometimes when I snap, it stresses him.

Some days he doesn't want friends over in case I snap at them if they do something wrong.

He worries that I might die from being ill.

Thinks that us understanding each other is good. (We both have PTSD.)

Well that was his answer. LOL bit like pulling teeth out of him. So that is the perspective of a 12 year old boy.

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