Well, I did it, I messaged him to tell him I was very sorry for all the stress he had to contend with yesterdat and I hope he is feeling better. I went on to reassure him that I see that the way everyone told him off was not OK and I get that. I told him I am trying to get everyone to understand. I finished by saying that if there is anything I can do fot him I would be happy to and offered to bring him something good to eat. Then I finished by saying it was all up ti him and to never remember I care.

No reply, he is probably busy. If nothing else I hope it cheers his heart up just a little and maybe he will have a bit more faith that he can turn to me if he wants to....
I hope.