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Originally Posted by Bella78  I just don't want him to feel such a bastard that he does something silly. |
You consider cheating "something silly"? It is far more than that.
Honestly Bella, you are in shock. You only just found out. Don't be so hard on yourself please. You need time to deal with this. Not just a few days either.
Bella, I cheated on my wife at the beginning of our marriage, over 30 years ago now. We worked it out. However. It took weeks before my wife even wanted to speak with me again.
You need to take care of
yourself right now.
Jim.