Thanks Bella those are very good points and yes he probably is overwhelmed with the Xmas thing and with our son coming home. BUT he does not tell me about his feelings I have tried before to help this way but am greeted with a brick wall?
I know he wants to take him to show him his ute that he is getting done up.
I can only hope that he makes an effort he has just dragged himself out of bed at 3pm says he has a headache but that excuse wear thin after a while?
Our son is going to Afghanistan in Feb so he really needs to make an effort!!