Kathy. I am so sorry to hear you are struggling, but commend you on recognising it and taking the steps to look after yourself. There is no shame in that at all. Those of us who too often put others before ourselves tend to suffer that little bit more when it all gets on top of us, as we aren't used to taking care of number 1.

Have not noticed even a hint of rude or snappy. I couldn't even imagine your posts being like that.

Best of luck and love to you