I'm with Kerrie-Ann about loving "my boys" and will do what I can to keep us together as a family. No matter what life throws at us, I know my family is worth it!

Not sure if this is relavant to most of the spouses or not but in light of my newfound experience of PTSD I have learnt that I had to do one important thing. I had to grieve for the husband that I had. I know that he is not the same man he was prior to the incident that has caused his PTSD. Since I have done this I have be able to work on getting to know & grow with my new husband. It's a new thing for him too as I have also changed as a result of dealing with our new lifestyle. As long as we keep working together I'm sure that in time we will have a deeper love for each other than we both thought was possible.