Thanks Anthony
I have decided that one step I am going to take is get someone else to help me with the business I just cant rely on him at the moment!
I am going to tell him this tonight.
Whether or not this will push him deeper down his hole that he is in or not time will tell.
I am getting a bit to stressed over this EVERY day with him not helping me.
And we cant afford the two of us falling apart!
Just something else he does know what buttons to push as I dont like conflict I never have I will sooner walk out of the room than argue with someone?