Anthony. We are not all the same though. How do you know he is not doing this because his PTSD is just that severe and has yet to meet a therapist who can reach him? Who would not lounge all day if allowed? Me. My hub does not pull me out of bed ever. If I am ill he lets me be for days and brings food to bed. This is not often but I have learned something here. I have bad symptoms, worse than many, yet I have seen if I can be this bad why would others not be worse? Just seems very conceivable others can be worse than me and I know how I get and I do bust it. Maybe it is not always a choice, maybe it is a matter who can reach us and show us hope we can come back out?