I don't have dates either, but I *think* that I may have one in March. This is usually the month that my suicidal thoughts, and acts become real. Never knew it till the head shrink at the local ward pointed it out to me 4 yrs ago. I had attempted suicide 3 times in the month of March over the last 15 yrs. I had abuse/trauma for most of my early life so dates don't really mean anything to me.

I would think that people with one or two traumas it would bother them knowing that the date was approaching. I can understand why it would upset them. Makes perfect sense to me. It would be hard not to get sick knowing that day was coming.