This is a bit difficult for me because I dont want to know when the date was of my crash but its the same day as my friend's birthday. This complicates it for me as I have to remember it. It was the beginning of difficulties with the friendship too so its all a bit mixed up. However, I have chosen to have a good day, purposely doing something fun on that day. I have, in previous years, chosen to spend it away from that friend but I think as i am getting better this may not be necessary in the future.