Jen, yes I am in a new relationship...14 wonderful months :) and we do talk a lot ! I ask him a lot of questions, and he calmly answers them, not always as soon as I ask..but he does say "I will answer you when I feel ready" and I respect him cause I always tell him "if you feel like talking" and "when you are ready"

I do push him sometimes, and so far, it has often given us good reasults, he even told me a few times " I needed that" but as Kathy says it is a very delicate situation and we have to know when to push and when to stay away. I am still learning with my bf :) We are always honest with each other, and I often tell him "I am sorry if I offended you, I am learning"