Very good that he is Jen.... remember, it is up to you whether you enable his behaviour or not. Whether he likes it or not, he will more often change if you force him too in more indirect behaviours, ie. not enable his behaviour or allow him to hold you back from life. He will either feel left out, left behind or come to the party and begin helping himself. Amazing what love can do Jen..... even when it is at the lessen end of the scale. |