Ohh Kathy I never meant you should be replaced! I meant maybe having someone to help you here. So that you knew you weren't the only one it might help on the days you might not want to log on and deal with everyone else's issues you would know you didn't have to if you didn't want to. Just a helper sort of not a replacement! As for a housekeeper... there has been times I wanted the help.. and times I couldn't imagine someone else in my house moving my things and doing the only thing thats "my" job. But I would say take the chance and you might find you like the short break to go out and do whatever you felt like instead of thinking about all the house work that had to be done. Like a vacation!