Sunnydaze- I understand what you are saying and I already have very few friends because they all ended up being bad for me, but I think this person is just as bad. We haven t even argued on the phone...it has all been done over e mails, but this one is something special. She seems as though she may be borderline. All I know is that she is really defensive, saying all I do is attack her and call her sick when in fact I told her I was worried about her and maybe she should see someone. But I would hold on to her if she had not said that she overlooks a lot of stuff in me...I don t think she is really my friend if she really feels that way. You make a really good point however