Good points Lisa. When I was serving, I was already with Jim, so I had nothing to fear in that regard. I do recall though when Jim was drinking, his commanding officer warned him about hurting me or the children, so no cover ups in my personal experience, though I definitely heard of others less fortunate than myself. In any event that was simply eons ago! Practically the stone ages according to my children.

I am uncertain about current domestic violence cover ups, however I do know the Canadian military has had some similar problems with sexual harassment quite recently. I gather the powers that be are working to improve the situation, though how quickly, who knows.