No we don't get over it. We find ways to lower stress, we find new coping skills, we find out things about ourselves that we never knew before, we find out that we are very brave, very strong people. We find out that we are compassionate and filled with empathy for others.
It's not fair that he doesn't understand, and it isn't nice that he isn't supportive. It's ok though. You have support here and you are trying to heal yourself. So keep moving forward. It does and can get better, and so can you. We may never be the same as before, but we can get better to a degree, if not a lot.
Hang in there. |