I asked my husband to come here and look around...not to join. I wanted that to be his decision. Even though he didn't join, he's very supportive of me being here and a lot of things I read here (especially in the carer's section) become things we discuss. I know we talk a lot more about issues than we did before. And I know that the forum has helped a bit with this.

Whatever he decides, you've got to remember that it's his decision. No pressure.

Lisa