Hi Jolene,
Well Done !

Very important step in helping him see symptoms of PTSD.
Getting to a counselor, etc.
Check with your military chaplin about the "losing his clarence" thing, or maybe he can refer you to someone about it, that won't "violate a confidence" on your behalf.
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My name is Donna and my husband was an U.S. Army Airborne Ranger from 91-97. We weren't married then. I met him in 98 after he already had PTSD, but hadn't been diagnosed as yet. The VA is still "working on accepting that he 'has it' etc"
Hang in there you are not alone ...
hugs to you all...
Donna