I cry alot... it doesnt help us but thats what i do for release...To make peace with him when we are not talking? well im sitting here...and i cant think of anything...i guess i leave him alone (eventually) and he comes around and talks to me like he normally would later in the day..or vise versa... Its almost as if he tries to start over and pretend nothing happened...even when/if i am still bothered....but what can ya do?

Somebody correct me if i am wrong but i have learned here that time and space has alot to do with things getting better between spouses. Dont mean to sound dumb and act as if it is not obvious but i find it hard to deal with...I am a very impatient person :(

I really dont think what your husband did is funny...
i would be hurt more than anything (and i am sure you are) considering you dont always do that for him and you know he loves it... You did it to show him you still care and I see that you are trying...

i need help on this one...
grrrr im not having such a good day. I dont feel very "positive" today :(