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Originally Posted by blueeyedgirl  No, he's not in therapy. He would like to be, but because he's a government contractor, he's unable to take much time off work. I'd mentioned it the other day, but he said that right now, having some place to live is more important than how he feels. |
This is understandable. If he must move or relocate, that is likely stressful enough for him at this point. One thing at a time, so to speak. PTSD sufferers can only handle so much stress at once, especially when their PTSD is not managed. Perhaps once he is more settled he can begin therapy. Unfortunately medication is not sufficient, as you are discovering.
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Originally Posted by blueeyedgirl I wish I could be there for him. Take him to therapy myself. But, he's got to be the one to do that. And, I'm afraid he won't until it gets unbearable for him. |
Yes you are correct, going to therapy must be his decision entirely, though obviously you can support him in it. Unfortunately you are also correct that he may not go until things become unbearable. Many need to reach a "bottom", a certain breaking point, where they cannot stand how they are feeling any longer.
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Originally Posted by blueeyedgirl It's odd though - how he seemed so calm and happy. And, somehow he's a totally different person. |
Well, not so odd really. Quite common with PTSD. Their mood can change drastically depending on the circumstances and their stress levels. It can be a difficult thing to adjust to though - I speak from personal experience!
The good news is though, if he does receive treatment in the form of therapy and works dilligently upon himself, his moods will eventually improve.