Hiya Workingthoughit

I'm so sorry you are having problems with this too. I guess its an issue for a lot of us. If i work out how to tell my hubby and i have any success then ill let you know.

My new counsellor has said that it might be useful to bring hubby to a session so that he can see how and why this affects me. I think it would laso help to have hubby hear it come from someone else so that he knows its not normal. Maybe that is an option for you. I dont know. It isnt for me as i only ahve 6 sessions with her and thats not going to be enough to get me better as it is let alone help our sex life.

Hope things get better for you
Take care