Hiya Seeking nirvana

I'm sure we all have our own opinions on this. Personally i would say if you dont want sex then say no. Plain and simple.

But i know its not easy when its with someone you love. And i dont say no even though i probably should. I dont want the flashbacks and so avoid sex sometimes too. But its not just the flash backs either. I really should avoid it all the time untill the flash backs stop.

But were trying to get pregnant so... And if i dont try i wont know if the flash backs have stopped. Very difficult question to answer. As to wether it does damage having sex when you dont want it ... still have to find that one out.

Sorry to have not been much use. But im with you on this one.

Take care