I just enjoy being naked in bed with my husband. He kisses me and rubs me. Scratches my back. Rubs my feet. The antidepressant meds killed my desire to have sex a long time ago anyway, and he understands that, so we don't have sex unless he initiates, and I can't ever have orgasm. The antidepressant stops that. But I also don't miss sex because the antidepressant stops the desire. I just want to be friends.