Warren,
Men do hate talking....hmmm...maybe i should just believe my husband already huh?! lol he's been telling me that for sooo long and i just never believed him...
But i do see what you say, my husband doesn't talk...like at all! lol but if something is bugging me or there is something wrong, he makes the changes when he is able.

Veiled,
You make complete sense...yeah who the heck is going to ask for space when all they need to do is blow up...i see now that i tend to sugar-coat everything in order to make myself feel better i guess...it just feels crappy when i want/need to talk (even if its about something very simple, or even ask a question) and he just blows up on me for no reason... makes me feel like sh*t. And i hate putting up with it!! But i understand now that he is doing me a favor if he just walks away from a conversation...otherwise (like its been happening) things get very ugly :-( and that makes me feel worse.... i need to work on "giving space" big time :-(