If you feel more comfortable with counselor #2 and find it easier to express yourself why not go that route. Sometimes I think it is more a matter of personality and approach than competency. I had one counselor who wore a white lab coat to our sessions. I kept wondering if he was going to take some of my blood. He seemed to me to be very full of himself and I just couldn't talk to him because I felt like I was being judged. I think it is a little like dating in that there needs to be a chemistry that can't be easily identified or explained.