To God, our lives here is just a sneeze. For us it may seem like an eternity, but for him our entire lives, if long lived, is but seconds.
Make your seconds count with a lot of laughter, (many comedy sites and emails), to counter balance the sadness we all go through.
My friend's life down here made a difference to so many, I cherish the thought that I was lucky enough to have had his happy go lucky spirit in mine, inspiring me to do the same.
Yes loss hurts, no doubt, but who would we really be without those special people we deem lovable? Maybe not as good as we would hope.
Love the memories of all goodness you've had in your life, we have enough time to dabble in the bad when flashbacks force us there.
Be strong, hun, I know it is tough, very tough, but you will hopefully recount all the goodness that has rubbed off of him and onto you.
Much sincerity,
Donna-Lynne