And a girl's point of view on what Anthony said..........I have more respect for a man who can show his emotions and share with me what he feels. Tough and macho can be for the rest of the world, outside of home, but inside the home should be open and honest (confidential if required). Not talking and having things happen to you is like bottling things up...one day, when you put too many things in the bottle it will explode as it can't keep it all in. As the saying goes; a joy shared is doubled and a trouble shared is halved.