Hi Jen, and thankyou for coming here to help us, and hopefully help yourself. My wife has been trying to send me away recently, for pretty much the same thing, but I got past it now by getting some things out on this board, and I feel pretty good getting all that stuff off my chest that has been building for a while now. Maybe you husband just needs to do that... get it all off his chest?

I know one thing, you probably need to do the same though, as my wife certainly does so here, cause I do drive her up the wall at times on bad days. I had bad months but recently... but a bit better now, so she is starting to ground herself again and not tip toeing around on eggshells.

I really hate PTSD... honestly I just hate it. Living with it, and seeing what happens to those around it, sometimes it just makes us worse, because we know what we are doing to people, but sometimes we just can't stop it, even when we struggle so hard to stop it, or atleast reduce it... it is still very difficult at times for all concerned.