Thread: Loving Sex and Flashbacks / Intrusive Thoughts
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Old 03-02-2008, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted by mightsurvive View Post
Hmmm - im so frustrated.

But that is starting to change now and i dont know why. All i can think of is "i dont want this" But its not sex with my hubby that i dont want - its the flashbacks and intrusive thoughts during it. Does that make sense? put up with the flash backs during sex or i will lose him. Either way im the loser agian.

Grrrrrrrrrrrr. Sorry just had to get that out.
It makes a lot of sense. I'm dealing with that as well, in that I don't want intimate relationships because it might bring up memories of past abuse.
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