Hiya Cathy

Sorry to hear your in the same boat. Hard isnt it (rhetorical question). Its good to know that I'm not the only one who has this problem. Not that I thought I was for a minute. You never are on this site. But it helps to have it confirmed that what you are going through is normal sometimes.

One thing I have found though, is that if you have sex in the morning then it is over quicker and so less flash backs / intrusive thoughts.

Hope that helps.

Take care