Hiya 2peanut

So sorry to hear you are going through this too. You are definitely not alone here. Keep your eyes peeled on this thread because theres already been so many good points raised and ideas. Hope you find something that helps.

If you are not in a relationship and want to start one then any decent person should be able to understand that you want to take things slow... very slow. If they can't understand that then they arent worth it in my opinion and you deserve better.

Take care