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Old 16-09-2006, 01:26 PM
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Jen,
My husband (who has PTSD) and i are in the process of getting our new place ready to live in...and so far the "we" part turned into "I"
We talked about cleaning the place up and living nice and i was so excited but so far i have been on my own if i want anything done...I do all the laundry, i clean up the house, i do the bills... i even take care of his tarantulas and snake.
This past weekend he did nothing but watch tv all day and night...and he was already like this but anytime i say anything or ask him a question..i know he cant hear me. I cant tell if its because he has PTSD or because he is a man?! thats really confusing to me...im pretty sure it has something to do with PTSD, hes never been this bad..but yes hours and hours staring at the tv screen with nothing to say and no turning away..i get so bored :(
I can proudly say though that my hubby is an awesome cook!!! :)

Hi Kim,
I just read your post and i am happy to see that it is a man thing! yeay! lol

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I have every intention of doing stuff around the house but when i look around for something to get started with, i am just so overwhelmed that i dont know where to start
My husband tells me this all the time and i believe him because he does tell me the things he wants to do and get done but when it comes down to it..he just gets confused and fustrated...so i can understand.

Last edited by Andrea42; 16-09-2006 at 01:32 PM.
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