Oh okay thanks for that explanation, that makes more sense to me now. I understand needing to convince someone to do things a different way, or convincing someone that they need treatment or whatever, but the words "point of view" and "opinion" kind of threw me off. Because, a carer can be just as wrong in their point of view as a sufferer. But I guess that isn't the point and I probably shouldn't be participating anyhow as I'm not in a relationship.