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Old 04-02-2008, 04:35 PM
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Honey, I'm proud of you for your willingness, your effort and your honesty and despite any understandable hesitency.


Personally, I can't thank All of you enough for this discussion, insight and help. This feedback has opened a supportive door for both personally my husb. and I, and him & I as a much hoped for team. It motivated and initiated some open, respectful, far less fearful discussion of particularly a certain touchy topic.

Thank you honey for sitting with me tonight and discussing certain important material. I heard you and have owned my share of what we personally discussed and will take best direction and a more appropriate course from here.

You know what though, I think you did leave something out.

I suffer the severest of my PTSD symptoms sporadically and when under too great of stress. Or, unresolved trauma happens to surface and I'm either dealing with it or neglecting to do so, bc of life and time-constraints. What I feel he left out is that there are those times sometimes, indeed when I am way over stressed, filled with high anxiety and ill with other PTSD symptoms, and lacking much ability and/or willingness to consider my husb.'s point of view-(generally after I've accused him of something), but not always when overly stressed and seriously ill, and only when thouroughly confused, distrusting of him and while getting him confused with my father and/or another family member from my past.

Hope
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